Was he actually? Was it someone like a teacher of his? Or a boss?
Because an age gap like that doesn’t automatically mean grooming. I dated someone who was 42 at 19, who I met at 19, and I’m the one that made the first move, and courted them, because I was interested in them. They didn’t have kids though, but that’s still much older than me.
So he was groomed. Not cool.
Was he actually? Was it someone like a teacher of his? Or a boss?
Because an age gap like that doesn’t automatically mean grooming. I dated someone who was 42 at 19, who I met at 19, and I’m the one that made the first move, and courted them, because I was interested in them. They didn’t have kids though, but that’s still much older than me.
A 19 year old guy is old enough to make his own decisions.